"The Trick to Holding On" by Taylor Swift (age 27)
Let go of the ones who hurt you
Let go of the ones you outgrow
Let go of the words they hurl your way
as you’re walking out the door
The only thing cut and dry
In this hedge-maze life
Is the fact that their words will cut
but your tears will dryThey don’t tell you this when you are young
You can’t hold on to everything
Can’t show up for everyone
You pick your poison
Or your cure
Phone numbers you know by heart
And the ones you don’t answer any moreHold on to the faint recognition in
the eye of a stranger
As it catches you in its lustrous net
How quickly we become intertwined
How wonderful it is to forget
All the times your intuition failed you
But it hasn’t killed you yet
Hold on to childlike whims and moonlight swims and your blazing self-respectAnd if you drive the roads of this town
Ones you’ve gone down so many times before
Flashback to all the times
Life nearly ran you off the road
But tonight your hand is steady
Suddenly you’ll know
The trick to holding on
Was all that letting go
OK so right out of the gate this is extremely literal. I really hope this isn't going to just be prose with awkward line breaks Taylor I really fucking hope it is not.Let go of the ones who hurt you
Let go of the ones you outgrow
Now we're talking! Let's get these metaphors. It's good because you can't actually hurl a word and life isn't actually a hedge-maze, it's just description which tells you something about how much words hurt and how confusing life is. Do you get it now?Let go of the words they hurl your way
as you’re walking out the door
The only thing cut and dry
In this hedge-maze life
Is the fact that their words will cut
but your tears will dry
What does this mean.You pick your poison
Or your cure
So true.Phone numbers you know by heart
And the ones you don’t answer any more
Hold on to the faint recognition in
the eye of a stranger
As it catches you in its lustrous net
How quickly we become intertwined
How wonderful it is to forget
All the times your intuition failed you
But it hasn’t killed you yet
Hold on to childlike whims and moonlight swims and your blazing self-respect
The! Big! Finish! A dramatic conjuring of an image, to be sure. What she's saying is that growing as a person is exactly like driving an SUV.Flashback to all the times
Life nearly ran you off the road
But tonight your hand is steady
V poignant.In all it's pretty Swift-y, though I'm pretty disappointed in the lack of symbolism. Not saying a poem has to be massively symbolic or anything I really just get the impression she found a piece of crumpled up paper with discarded lyrics from a couple of eras ago, took a photo of it and sent it to British Vogue as her submission. Besides, I'm not sure I'm that keen to take advice on Growing Up and Moving On from someone who recently released an album with a number of songs on it that are about the same, long-term grudge. Just my opinion. Pretty poem though I suppose.Follow Noisey on Twitter.The trick to holding on
Was all that letting go